15 Things You Probably Never Even Thought Of   Are you or is someone you know having a wedding reception? Here are 15 things you probably never even thought of that professional mobile deejay, Stan Horst of Stan’s DJ Entertainment suggests makes for better parties. I first want to point out that it is rare that all these items are/or can be followed in any given event but the more you can adhere to them, the more likely your party will be at full steam come closing time.   1)      Don't put the older guests next to the dance floor/speakers. If you have to ask why, then you may want to hire a harpist all night.  2)      Don't cram your entertainment out of the way -- your entertainer should be seen. Powerful entertainers will work to get people on the dance floor but they must be seen as part of the action, not just some side show.  3)      A party  should end when it shouldn't end, not when it should. Ending a party before it dies down leaves everyone with the impression the floor was packed all night. It just feels better when people are left wanting more versus being completely burned out.  4)      A "too small" dance floor is better than one that is too big. The answer is simple as it creates the illusion whether real or not that the floor is full. People are more likely to dance when the crowd on the floor is dense than when they feel like the only ones out there. Take it from the trade that knows about dancing and crowd psychology not from the banquet manager selling you on why a huge floor is so important. If people end up dancing on the carpet then great they end up dancing on the carpet and the story of your floor being so packed people couldn't even fit on the floor only further reinforces my point.  5)      Darker is better than lighter for dancing. It creates a better romantic atmosphere. People feel less of a spectacle, less "on stage" when they think they're harder to see. That is why crime increases at night as well -- and yes, when some people dance it is a crime. This one works along the same lines of psychology as tip 4.  6)      Keep exit doors closed. Doors are inviting and you don't want to invite people outside of the main room. Having them open allows more light into the room which again works against the psychodynamics of the dance floor. Open doors invite people to their cars in the parking lot. You want to keep their focus in the reception room for as long as possible.  7)      Brides and Grooms should never stand by the exit door unless they want people to leave. I have seen rooms drain guests one by one in a single file line. It is odd to explain but when the "guests of honor" stand by the exit door it draws people to them like a vacuum. Take my word for it keep away from the doors unless you want people to leave and don’t make a habit of saying good bye to people while you're on the dance floor. This too gets people in exit mode.  8)      This is a very general statement - Nicer places, (country clubs etc.) actually make it harder, especially in the summer and fall months to get people up and moving because they are so pre-occupied enjoying the scenery. Think about it...  would you rather enjoy a cold beverage on a breezy deck outdoors amidst the trees or a full dance indoors? It isn't that the night can't be great but all things being equal nicer venues pull from the floor potential. As a deejay I love playing nicer events and usually do as that's my target market but it can't change simple human nature. If you're having your party/reception at a really nice venue then you'll just want to pay closer attention to some of these other factors to tip the scales in your favor.  9)      Bars should always be in the main room. Preferably closer to the dance floor but not in the way of any lines to the bar. If a bar and/or desserts are put out of the main room then a huge percentage of potential dancers are unavailable. Bars are like kitchens and they draw people to them. If you can help it, don't make your dj wrestle with the draw of a bar.  10)  If you are going to shut the bar down for 30 minutes of say 6 hours, do it during dinner. If you do it at say 11:30 then the party will more likely die out as people will feel that it's time to go.  11)  Happy music keeps things going. Keep away from any negative vibes at all. Keep the mood up up up.  12)  Respect the musical opinions of your local professionals. They do this for a living. Be careful not to cut out all the "cliche" wedding music as you'll find this will negatively impact the dance floor potential. People dance to what they know. A wedding reception is not the time and place to prove to your friends and family that you are into obscure music.You've got a lot of people from all over your family tree that want to have a good time so let your deejay exercise all his tools and really work his craft.  13)  People tend to remember the beginning and the end of an event. That's why your DJ should do a strong grand introduction and play while your guests are enjoying cocktails early on. This helps him to build rapport early on and if done right it puts your dj in a more powerful position to work your crowd all night.  14)  It is best for any traditional events or speeches to be done and out of the way before dancing begins. In addition, it is important for pictures of the bridal party and bride and groom to be done, when at all possible, before the dancing begins. As a DJ I have seen more parties lose steam because the bridal party is having pictures taken after the bridal dance. Do all the pictures before. It may cost you an extra hour earlier in the day but it will save you from losing a good handful of guests early on.  15)  Do all you can to arrange your rehearsal dinner 2 nights before, NOT 1 night before the reception. Why? I have seen many weddings where the bridal party was burnt out from the night before and this can (not always) play a big factor in building some inertia on the dance floor.   If you have to cut corners don't compromise on the entertainment. My clients never complain that they paid too much for my services. Also, know that experience is king -- I am a better dj after every event I do. Stan's DJ Entertainment service has been in operation for 39 years. His website can be found at http://www.ElectServices.com and he can be reached at (717) 273-7070. Check out our credentials (News and Magazine Stories and other interesting facts) on the Stan’s Disco Page
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